Super quick update:-
Job - going well! Seem to be settling in OK and the work is pretty good.
Home - Phil's house is on the market! He's got someone coming to look at it today. This is good and also scary as it means he's really moving in soon. I'm happy, that's a given, but also a little scared of the change (as per usual :P)
I hope you're all well, I'm becoming an online recluse and not ever checking LJ :(